It’s interesting how many of us adopt the mentality of ”you’re a product of your environment” without even knowing it. Where we grow up, who we see and what we’re told by our parents from a young age tends to form a big part in our future selves. And because we don’t realise this early on or more specifically, don’t actually get taught it, we unconsciously fill our lives with physical possessions and other distractions which prevents us from truly looking inward to ourselves and finding out what makes us happy…well, until it’s too late.
I can’t speak for everyone but I think ”what makes me happy?” could be quite a common question amongst middle aged and beyond people. And it’s fairly easy to understand this given we have media and advertising denoting how we should think and feel. Think about all the luxury vehicle advertisements, with open roads, lush green scenery and the ability go anywhere. What do these advertisements represent? Freedom. Now what about advertisements for make-up and skin cleansers, with model-like women. What do these advertisements represent? Insecurities about one’s image. But do you ever see advertisements on how to look deeply within yourself and find out what makes you happy without some sort of product or service? Of course not, there is no direct monetary gain in long-term happiness and fulfilment, only short-term bursts of artificial happiness, so you keep buying the newest and latest car, the most new “natural” make-up or swanky televisions.
So how does one find happiness and smile with joy every day? It’s certainly not easy and will take time but the rewards are great, more significant than any 55″ flat screen television or luxurious sports car will give you. Kate Kendall has done two graphs depicting the effects of both short-term and long-term happiness:

Short Term Happiness

Long Term Happiness
I think both of these graphs are fantastic examples of why it’s important to focus on happiness in the long-term as opposed to the short-term. If you’re finding your life to be up and down regularly, then maybe a look at your happiness is in order!
If you’re finding that happiness is what you’re seeking, I doubt that there is one magical recipe to finding it but I do know it starts and ends with you. So perhaps start quietly questioning your daily activities and ask, “do I enjoy this?”. If so, really think why as you may be able to find a commonality in other, new activities. If not, I suggest you firstly work out why and then possibly move towards ceasing it. The more activities, gestures and thoughts that increase your happiness will not only make you a better person but appreciate life as it truly is.
For me, I’ve only recently begun walking the path of happiness. Seeking it has been difficult I won’t lie but I know it’s what I need to do in order to be truly at peace with myself.
Keep searching, keep sharing and send love to everywhere because you’ll only be rewarded even more in time.











“What’s that you say? I just forgot” Memory – it’s one of the most important factors in our daily human lives, remembering multiple things from birth to the present, helping us achieve more and building a better life. As we all know there are many mind variations out there and memory is always apart of every variant. For example, visually enhanced minds in the right side of the brain (artist type people) are more photographic in memory, allowing them to remember pictures and scenes or particular instances vividly. Whereas left brain types are more mathematical and find themselves remembering numbers, equations and words etc much more easily. I find myself more in tune with the right side of my brain, the visual part. Even though I can do mathematical sums, remember various quotes from certain movies and spell efficiently, these are by far, not my strong points. To be quite honest, I find it harder to use the left side of my brain than the right. Makes sense right? Haha, of course it does.

